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Creating Your Own Reality
Debora Myers/Ladyfire.com



"So as I will, So as I think, So will It be-
So as you do, So as you grow, So shall ye reap."

Positive affirmation and visualization tools will help you in programming your subconscious mind into realizing or believing that which you have been affirming. In short you become what you affirm and create. Simple!

When making your affirmation keep your statement positive and repeat it over and over. This is the key to reprogramming your subconscious to believe what you are inputting or uploading.

"The subconscious only records, it doesn't have the capacity to weigh and measure and consciously make decisions. It simply acts as a recording device and blindly acts on the info it picks up. This is where you and your conscious brain must come in to negotiate and reason with the part of your brain that is incapable of making an informed/logical decision."

The Personal Alter

A fun and creative activity to help you on your growth path is to create your own personal altar. The personal altar is a tool to help you to learn to appreciate yourself and for making your positive affirmations. It is another way to ritualize and bring your thoughts, desires and affirmations into the third dimension.

This tool can help you to transform your view of yourself from negative to positive. It is helpful in rebuilding your self-esteem after years of negative programming by family, peers and your own self. It is another small step up the proverbial ladder in learning to plant seeds of self-love in your subconscious mind.

You cannot argue with your subconscious mind. It only acts as a recording device diligently recording every input. It doesn't have the capability to reason or think things through. It is the source of your primal mind and lifelong programming. The subconscious is there to constantly record input for survival reasons.

It is the part of your mind that hypnotists and some psychoanalysts make suggestions to and "dig through" when looking for information that you have forgotten consciously. Some therapists work with the subconscious in past life regressions, believing that we have records of many lifetimes recorded there.

Your personal altar can give you a place to collect symbols of your accomplishments on your evolutionary path.

This is a creative tool for reprogramming your subconscious mind in acknowledging the fact that you are changing and evolving into a better person. When building an alter to your sacred self remember that you want it to represent you and where you are going. Remember that when making an affirmation to do it in a positive way. The same goes for your altar.

If you wish to use symbols of what you want to be, or what you want in life, do so as if those aspects or things are already in your reality. Operate as if those things are already there. Say, for a simple example that you are looking for a mate. Maybe a doll or picture or items that represent what you want could be added to your altar.

Say you want a lover that will cook for you. Maybe add something to your altar that represents that: A tiny chef hat or spatula. If you want a mate that shares your vegetarian philosophies- a tiny doll dish of beans could be added. You see my point. You are making it real for your subconscious to record. Simple and direct, it helps to keep your mind focused on the details of what you want.

The alter is there to remind you that you are a part of creation and that you are involved in that creation process, just as in your dream journal and daily journal. Don't feel you need to write in them everyday, or have to meditate or add to your alter everyday.

Just write in them when you feel like it or can get to it. The point of this exercise is to help you in your life, not create more work and add more pressure. You want to be able to depressurize so to speak, so take it easy, take care of yourself, use all your tools but don't pressure yourself to have to do them, otherwise you are missing the point.

An alter is just a third dimensional focusing point. Enjoy your creative process as you help yourself along your personal evolutionary path. Life is a journey. Best to make the most out of it! Have fun!

A few ideas to get you started:

Your alter can be on a table-top, in a box, an old suitcase, makeup kit, in a sheltered place in your yardÉ.

For a personal alter you may use a self-portrait, a photograph of yourself, a small statue representing you, (it doesn't necessarily have to "look" like you. It can represent how you feel or how you would like to feel about yourself. We all know of the person that places a "fat" picture of themselves on the fridge to keep themselves from getting in there and chowing down, but you don't want to do that in your alter. You want a positive picture or representation of how you want to be!

When making an affirmation say it as if it were already true and state it positively.

Write an affirmation to go with the object in your alter. (I have an angel statue in one of my many alters and she has her hands cupped out in front of her. My friend gave me an old earring of the planet earth hanging from a peace sign. So groovy! I placed the peace sign in my angel's hands and the earth dangles below. Everytime I look at it I say in my head, "May I find peace in this world and may the world find peace in me." So far I have told nobody my affirmation that goes with my angel, but I think it's worth sharing with my sistersÉ.

I affirm that this helps to get you on the path of personal conscious and subconscious growth! If you are well on your way already, maybe this tidbit can remind you to share your info with those around you to help them in their growth process.

Spring is a time for the celebration of rebirth! So rejoin with the earth seasons and plant your seeds today!

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