SEXUAL PROJECTION
by Debora Myers
Sexual projection is the sexual energy you emanate
to those around you. You may not even be aware of
the message you are sending. Are you projecting lack,
insecurity and neediness? Or are you projecting a
strong, self-assured sexual dynamo? It isn't difficult
to figure out which projection is the correct one
for drawing what you want to you. Remember that a
thought put forth is energy. We are electrical beings
and our thoughts and feelings are like electrical
currents that go out to the universe.
What is the message that you wish to project? Are
you currently looking for a love partner? Or are you
taking some time for yourself, for inner reflection
and solitude? Think about what you wish to put out
in your psychic beacon and guide your projection with
positive thought.
Be careful not to let negative energy leak into
your projection.
Steps for Projecting & Drawing a Prospective Love
Interest
Take a quiet moment to write down what you are looking
for.
Visualize yourself happy, full and complete. Visualize
what you want and how you want to feel. Use the list
you made earlier to help you. Try to imagine and feel
the feelings you wish to draw to you. You must project
the feelings that you wish to draw back to you. Do
you wish to be adored, loved, respected, sexually
ravaged? Imagine how it would feel.
Do what you must third dimensionally to help you
in your creation process. If you wish to project a
sexual dynamo then dress the part. You don't have
to dress where you feel uncomfortable or like a ho
or anything. Just dress and take care to do what makes
you feel sexy and good about yourself.
Now take these thoughts and feelings and wrap them
around you. Visualize them as an aura pulsing and
surging, surrounding your body. Push the light or
energy of your thoughts and feelings outwards. You
first must feel them from within then push them out
with your heart.
If you have shut down and cannot seem to get the
energy up and flowing outward, you may have to deal
with energy blockages that are holding your creation
process back.
Childhood Sexual Abuse
Far, far too many of us have been sexually abused.
The memories of childhood sexual abuse may be deeply
buried within your subconscious. These memories can
fester -blocking the natural flow of sexual energy.
The results can be devastating, causing us to shut
down altogether sexually. These blockages can result
in low to no sexual desire, self-hatred and terrible
feelings of guilt.
Sexual abuse affects us in different ways. The opposite
of the shut down can occur. The sexual abuse may have
the devastating affect of the sexual energy never
shutting off. These victims of sexual abuse sometimes
deal with these memories by becoming sexually promiscuous
and end up projecting the fear, anger, self-hatred
and guilt, leaking and projecting the pain to the
world. What do we draw to us in such a state? We end
up drawing an angry, guilty, fearful person that hates
himself back to usÉ(usually). Two wrongs rarely make
a right. (Unless they are both willing to do the work
and heal themselves.)
So it is imperative to reach out for help if we
find ourselves in one of the above states of mind
and body. We must do the work. I mean WORK. It is
scary to face those issues and the old yucky feelings
that go along with them. But if we don't we may never
be able to have a healthy sexual life and love partner.
Seek help from a professional. I have hesitated to
share my story because I felt I wanted to keep it
to myself. As I analyzed my feelings on the subject
I realized that even after years of therapy and "work"
on the issue I still carried feelings of guilt and
shame. So ladies I'm going to share this with you
in the hope that those of you suffering from the same
feelings can find the inspiration to ask for help.
Sharing also helps me to let go of the shame.
I was sexually molested for two or three years when
I was little, I think I was 6 & 7 years old. In my
early teen years I remember the girls talking about
what the first time would be like. I can recall several
girls talking about how they were going to wait until
they were married to have sex so that it would be
special etc. I remained very quiet during these talks
but on the inside I was fuming. I can recall thinking,
"What am I waiting for, I'm already ruined. I actually
felt like I had been ruined. I carried that black
cloud around with me for many years. Luckily, when
I went to marriage therapy with my first husband,
I started to figure out why I had been so angry. I
started to realize that my marital problems were not
all his fault. I had begun my long journey into healing
that sweet blond little girl with the big smile and
green eyes. I learned to forgive my abuser. After
years of work I learned to love myself and grow into
a strong and self-assured woman. It just takes perseverance.
